1. recognition
2. relationship
3. respect
4. recommendation
THE PERFECT CAREER
a wrong person in a wrong job is DEPRESSION.
a wrong person in a right job is CONFUSION.
a right person in the wrong job is FRUSTRATION.
a right person in the right job is PROGRESSION, DEVELOPMENT & GROWTH
7 STEPS TO GET THE PERFECT CAREER.
1. discover your purpose.
2. know your Temperament
3. pray
4. share your concerns with other you can trust.
5. investigate
6. watch out for opportunities.
7. anticipate the future with peace and confidence.
LAWS OF RAISING CAPITAL
1. law of NOW
2. law of PERSONAL EARNINGS
3. law of PERSONAL SAVINGS
4. law of FAMILY AND FRIENDS
5. law of ANGEL INVESTORS
6. law of COOPERATIVE AND THRIFT SOCIETY
7. law of PARTNERSHIP
8. law of MERGERS AND ACQUISTION
9. law of DSFM (divide, simplify, factorize & multiply)
10. law of SELLING
11. law of SEASONAL BENEFITS
12. law of OPM/OPT
13. law of MARKETING
14. law of GRANTS FROM GOVERNMENT/NGO/ORGANIZATION
15. law of TRADE OF BARTER
16. law of FINANCIAL ADVICE
17. law of LOAN FACILITIES BY BANK
18. law of SOWING (1)
19. law of SOWING (2)
20. law of PRAYER
ENTREPRENEURSHIP SUCCESS
* Where is your Money?
in the pockets of all the people around the world.
therefore create a product or offer a service.
SMILE FOR ENTREPRENEURSHIP SUCCESS
S- system entrepreneur
M- Money entrepreneur
I- Innovative entrepreneur
L- lifestyle entrepreneur
E- empire entrepreneur
score yourself (10, 8, 6, 4, 2)in order of preference which entrepreneur appeals to or describes you most to the least.
POWER OF PERSONAL DISCOVERY
discovery leads to recovery (diamond)
Personal discovery leads to personal recovery
personal transformation leads to National transformation.
what are you called to do?
you are uniguely unique in your own uniqueness.
nobody is 100% like you.
what are you? who are you?
what are your gifts?
What are your Talents?
How do u discovery your self?
By KNOWING YOUR TEMPERAMENT.
Definition
Situation
Types & Explanation
Analysis Test
Vocation
Relationship
PROFESSIONAL JOB SKILLS
1. Proactive Skill
2. Confidence Skill
3. Passion Skill
4. Communication Skill – listening skill
speaking skill
reading skill
writing skill
5. Skill of ATTITUDE.
A T T I T U D E
1 + 20 + 20 + 9 + 20 + 21 + 4 + 5 = 100
6. Management Skill (time, resources, money etc)
7. Leadership Skill –
Ability to be lead from above.
Ability to lead from above.
Ability to lead across.
Ability to lead down.
8.Thinking Skill
9. Problem Solving Skill
10.TeamWork Skill
Brain Tizzers
a) Divide 30 by 1/2 and add 10.
b) If there are 3apples & u take away 2. How many do u have left.
c) How many animals of each sex did Moses take into the ark.
d) A farmer has 17Sheep and all but die. how many are left.
e) Is it legal for a Man to marry his widows sister.
f) How many birthdays does a man have in his lifetime.
g) Some months have 31days. How many have 28days.
h) A book cost N100 yesterday, today the increases by 10%, if by tomorrow there is a 10% decrease, what will be the price of the book?
i) There was a planer crash somewhere, every single person on the plane died, but when the rescue team got there, some people in the plane were saved. Who were those saved?
j) Imagine this: you are driving your new sport car that can carry two people, you and some one 1, but you are alone.
TASK:
There are 3people at the Bus/Stop you are about approaching.
i) 1 is a SICK OLD woman that needs to get to the hospital immediately
ii) the 2nd is an old friend of yours that helped you in your school days. (this is a chance to reconnect with him)
iii) the 3rd is your God sent life partner. (this is the only opportunity you have to meet her/Him)
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
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TEMPERAMENT 101: THE GUIDE FOR SELF DISCOVERY TOWARDS SELF RECOVERY
CONTENT
1) INTRODUCTION
2) DEFINITION OF TEMPERAMENT
3) KNOW YOUR TEMPERAMENT
4) STRENGHT AND WEAKNESS
5) TEMPERAMENT & VOCATION
6) TEMPERAMENT & COMPATIBILITY
1) INTRODUCTION
Temperament can be likened to the way you act from sleeping habits to the way you study, eat, drink, drive, talk, make friends and it influences everything you do.
When the value of a thing is not known, then misuse is inevitable and thus brochure is just perfect in time to help you discover yourself to recover lost grounds and gain more grounds.
Congratulations for having this brochure because you will not only discover why you behave the way you do but also know why other act the way they do.
There are four major types of temperament which are SANGUINE, CHOLERIC, MELANCHOLY & PHLEGMATIC.
Check out the behavior of the four temperaments in the following situations.
When in a room waiting
Sanguine: Talks about weather or anything before facing the real problem.
Choleric: Goes straight to the point & does not have time to gist.
Melancholy: Filled with depression, self-pity & sadness etched on the face.
Phlegmatic: Is never the first to start any conversation.
Eating
Sanguine: Eats anything in sight & anywhere.
Choleric: Stereotyped eaters. Seldom vary their daily & eat in big chunk.
Melancholy: Picky eaters who are selective.
Phlegmatic: Takes forever to finish a meal.
Driving & Speed
Sanguine: Erratic drivers, speeds & later slows down for no reason, always looking out for eye contact while driving.
Choleric: Daring speed driver. Change lanes in traffic constantly.
Melancholy: Prepares well before leaving for any trip & always know the best route to destination and rarely speed.
Phlegmatic: Drives slowly. Do not change lanes and indecisive at the slightest trouble.
Shopping
Sanguine: Buys on the spot which most times are not planned for. Does not take note of details of purchased product.
Choleric: Shop only when the need arises and sometimes overbuy.
Melancholy: Shop deliberately and decisively comparing prices, quality & quantity taking note of details.
Phlegmatic: Enjoy shopping but takes time to decide what or which to buy.
Study Habits
Sanguine: High IQ but usually weak in studies. Easily distracted by phone, bird, tv or anything due to indiscipline.
Choleric: Clever but not brilliant. Reads with speed and is usually inquisitive.
Melancholy: Enjoy learning, reads for long hours with ferocious appetite for books. Has keen retentive mind.
Phlegmatic: Study well but most times prefer short term reading to long term reading.
Handwriting
Sanguine: Expressive and flamboyant.
Choleric: Writes fast but poor handwriting.
Melancholy: Mostly handwriting is unpredictable. Depend on mood.
Phlegmatic: Usually small but neat handwriting.
Communication Skills
Sanguine: Speak intuitively. Overly expressive & exaggerates freely.
Choleric: Speak freely but more deliberate. Good at arguments.
Melancholy: Thinks first before speaking. Can speak too much at times.
Phlegmatic: Shy, quiet about everything & usually speak within themselves.
There are still other situations of how temperament affects behavior like payment of bills, sleeping, choice of clothes, hobbies & everything we do.
As you become familiar with temperament 101, you will see it at work, in your family, colleagues and your friend.
From the above situations you will begin to see which temperament is yours.
2) DEFINITION OF TEMPERAMENT
Temperament is a combination of in-born traits that are inherited from parents that subconsciously affects your behavior.
It is your temperament that makes you an INTROVERT or an EXTROVERT. It influences behavior, home life, trainings, education, preference for materials, likes & dislikes, strengths & weaknesses etc.
MEET THE 4
SANGUINE: warm, flamboyant, lively & energetic person who is receptive by nature. Easily attracted by external impressions that causes an outburst of response. Makes decisions based on feelings rather than reflective thoughts.
The Sanguine is so outgoing and considered to be a super-extrovert who has the equal capacity for enjoyment and usually likes people & loves people being around him.
A sanguine in a room lifts the spirit of everyone present by exuberant conversations. A fascinating storyteller with warm emotional nature who never lacks for friends. Generally, feels the joys & sorrows of people and make them feel important.
The individual who has this type of temperament enters a room mouth first in noisy, blustering and friendly ways. Appears more confident with high energy and lovable disposition to get ahead in life.
CHOLERIC: hot, quick, active, practical, strong-willed, self sufficient & very independent. Has the tendency to be decisive & biased. Finds it easy to make self decisions & for others. Like the sanguine, the choleric is also an extrovert but not as nearly intense.
The Choleric is an activist, who is not stimulated by the environment but stimulate the environment with endless ideas, goals, plans & ambitions. The choleric does not engage in aimless activities, has a keen practical mind, capable of making sound instant decisions or planning worthwhile. Never affected by pressure or what others think, takes a definite stand on issues and can be found crusading against some social injustice & not frightened by adversities: thus challenges brings encouragement. With an high amount of determination, success is sure where others have failed.
The Choleric is not emotionally attuned & does not sympathize easily with others nor naturally shoed or express compassion, tears of others usually bring embarrassed or disgust.
When the Choleric starts a project, there are tendencies of running into roughshod over individuals that may stand in the way. Has a domineering & bossy attitude and does not hesitate to use people to accomplish his targets & is usually considered as an opportunist.
MELANCHOLY: the richest of all temperaments, an analytical, self-sacrificing, gifted, perfectionist who has a very sensitive emotional nature.
By nature, the Melancholy is introverted but has predominated feelings that are prone to variety of moods. Sometimes filled with heights of ecstasy & behave extrovertedly and other times gloomy and depressed so they become withdrawn and quite antagonistic.
Melancholies are faithful; mends and most times let people come to make friends with them rather than make friends with people. Very dependable and a perfectionist who likes others but has a strong desire to be loved in return and also find it difficult to express their true feelings.
Disappointing experience provides the unwillingness to take people at face value, thus are prone to be suspicious when others show them too much attention.
The melancholy has strong, exceptional analytical ability to diagnose accurately the obstacles and dangers of any project. Finds great meaning in life through strong personal sacrifice and this makes them industrious.
PHLEGMATIC: the calm, easy going never get upset individual with such a high boiling point that anger is absent in their mind. The easiest type of person to get along with and by nature the most likeable of all temperaments is the phlegmatic. For a phlegmatic, life is a happy, unexcited, pleasant experience and avoids as much involvement in anything. Calm and never in a hurry no matter the circumstances around.
This temperament has a consistent nature with the ability to handle various capabilities that feels more emotions, appreciates fine arts and beautiful things of life and usually avoids violence or trouble.
The phlegmatic does not lack for friends because of the enjoyment with people and dry sense of humour. This type of individual maintains a positive approach to life. Has good retentive mind and capable of being a fine initiator.
The phlegmatic never gets very much involved with the activities of others. Needs high motivation of any form to go beyond daily routines. Never volunteers to take the lead but when imposed to lead, the leadership capacity and capabilities spring forth. The phlegmatic is a natural peacemaker.
3) KNOW YOUR TEMPERAMENT
A) Are you an extrovert? If so you are predominately a Sanguine or Choleric.
B) If “YES” to A, ask yourself: “Am I generally the first to speak or start a conversation? If so you are a SANGUINE.
C) If “YES” to A, ask yourself? I am good at sales? If yes then you are predominately a SANGUINE.
D) If “YES” to A, but “NO” to B and C, ask yourself, “Am I a strong natural leader or do I find it easy to take lead? If so, you are a CHOLERIC.
E) If you are NO to A; that is you are not an extrovert but an introvert. Then ask yourself “Am I a perfectionist, analytical and somehow criticizes? If so you are predominantly a MELANCHOLY.
F) If your answer is NO to A, ask yourself “Am I known by others as very quiet? Do I really get angry but experience fears and worries? If so then you are a PHLEGMATIC.
WHAT IS YOUR TEMPERMANT? ……………………………………
4) STRENGTH AND WEAKNESS
SANGUINE CHOLERIC
Strength Weakness
1 Emotional warm Lack in discipline
2 Friendly Weak-willed
3 Fun loving Egoistical
4 Outgoing & friendly Emotional Excitable
5 Verbally articulate Prone to exaggeration
6 Compassionate Hot-tempered
7 Responsive Disorganized
8 Enthusiastic Unstable
Optimistic Verbally manipulative
10 Ambitious Acts impulsively
Strength Weakness
1 Strong-willed Unemotional
2 Determined Self-sufficient
3 Self-reliant Impetuous
4 Decisive Domineering
5 Active & Energetic Hot- tempered
6 Problem solver Inflexible & unyielding
7 Strong natural leader Sarcastic & cruel
8 Optimistic Impatient
9 Productive Insensitive towards others
10 Goal-oriented Opinionated & proud
MELANCHOLY PHLEGMATIC
Strength Weakness
1 Meticulous Overly cautious
2 Analytical Deeply emotional
3 Orderly & organized Easily offended
4 Self sacrificing Pessimistic
5 Industrious Too rigid
6 Self disciplined Critical & picky
7 Aesthetic Theoretical & impractical
8 Creative Suspicious
9 Sensitive Self-centered
10 Loyal & faithful Fault finding
Strength Weakness
1 Calm, cool Passive & unmotivated
2 Easy going Subject to procrastination
3 Diplomatic Indecisive
4 Reliable Fearful & filled with wrong
5 Objective Lack initiative
6 Efficient Self-protective
7 Orderly Stubborn
8 Supportive Selfish
9 Good listener Worrier
10 Agreeable Slow in adapting
5) TEMPERAMENT & YOUR VOCATION
SANGUINE: the world is enriched with sanguine that+ are cheerful & naturally charismatic who make excellent sales people, politicians, actors, entertainers, preachers (particularly evangelist), masters of ceremonies, auctioneers and sometimes leaders.
In the area of helping people, sanguine excel as hospital workers, doctors, nurses, relief staff, reserve workers and make it a priority to make other people happy.
The biggest frustration of the sanguines detail oriented work: contract papers, documents & things get lost easily, usually forgetful& hate anything that requires paper work but can be overcome by self discipline.
Sanguines are people oriented sales people and excel in public relations, helping people and anything that requires charisma.
CHOLERIC: any profession that requires leadership, motivation and productivity is open to the Choleric provided it does it does not require too much attention to details & analytical planning.
Committee meeting & long range planning are always boring.
Cholerics prefer to be supervisors of people. Some are entrepreneurs that formulate ideas & launch out in new directions. Once a project/business is successful, boredom sets in due to the fact that the project/business would require more detail work.
Cholerics are natural motivator of other people that ooze self confidence, extremely goal-conscious & inspire others to be pleased.
The primary weakness of the Choleric is the ability of not being easy to satisfy or please. When they ought to praise people for a job well done, they delegate more work.
Cholerics are strong natural leaders that are goal or project oriented individuals who like to manage people.
MELANCHOLY: generally this temperament has the highest IQ, creativity, imagination and capable of perfection.
Most world great composers, artists, musicians, inventors, philosophers, theoretians, theologians, scientists and dedicated educators have predominantly possessed this temperament.
Any vocation that requires perfection, self sacrifice and creativity is open to a melancholy that seldom places self imposed limitations by exaggerating obstacles.
Almost any humanitarian vocation is welcomed. The melancholy possesses the analytical ability required to build structures, layout, landscape or envision a cohesive development.
Other professions are art & crafts, quality furnish designers, handy-work, scientist, music, playwrights, authors, decorators, engineers and any other profession that provides a meaningful service to humanity is open to the melancholy.
PHLEGMATIC: by nature is a cool detailed individual who works quietly. A master at anything that requires meticulous patience and daily routine.
The gentle nature of the phlegmatic assures the ideal atmosphere for teaching or lecturing. A quiet worker who will excel as an administrator, librarian, counselor and head of a department or unit. Another appealing field is engineering where planning and calculation are required.
Phlegmatics are very diplomatic and unabrasive as people tend to work very well with them. When in leadership position, order is brought out of chaos thus producing a working harmony and increase in productivity. They are well organized, never attend late for meetings or go unprepared. Tend to work well under pressure and are extremely dependable.
Phlegmatic really launch out on a business venture of their own and thus satisfied with a simple lifestyle.
6) TEMPERAMENT COMPATIBILITY
Now, that you have discovered your temperament and right vocation, you must also know about temperament compatibility of two opposite sex. This enables you have a lasting relationship with the opposite sex and help your marriage.
Just as like poles repel each other in magnetism, same temperaments repel each other in compatibility. Like temperaments rarely cohere.
For instance; Sanguines seldom marry another Sanguine for both are such natural extroverts that they would be competing in the same stage in life and no one would be sitting in the audience. Sanguines always need an audience to turn them on.
Cholerics on the other hand make such ere demands on other people that they not only marry each other, they probably would never date at least or more than once. They spend all their time arguing about everything and vying for control or authority in their relationship.
Two Melancholies might marry but very unlikely. Their analytical traits find negative quality in others and thus neither would pursue the other.
Two phlegmatic would rarely marry; for they would both die of old age before one got enough steam to propose. Besides they are so protective of their feeling that they could go steady with a person for a very long time before saying “I love you”.
Sanguines, who tend to be disorganized and undisciplined, are apt to admire careful, consistent and detailed conscious Melancholies. The latter in turn favours outgoing and highly motivated individuals who compensate for their introverted rigidity and aloofness.
The hard driving Choleric is often attracted to the peaceful, unexcited phlegmatic who in turn admire the Choleric’s dynamic drive.
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